Wednesday, October 05, 2005

Barbara Update

My wife Barbara's disease has progressed to the next step. About a week ago, she started coughing. They prescribed a med that dries up secretions to reduce the amount of saliva she produces to help minimize the coughing. It helps. Today the nurse told me it seems she is starting to loose control of the muscles in her throat for swallowing and coughing up flem. This is normal for someone in her condition and just one more step in the progression of the disease.

This is a picture of her in 1998. Our 33rd wedding anniversary was July 29th.

16 comments:

Anonymous said...

Hi T.

Just stopping in to see how you were and how things are going. As Sarah said, you need anything, just holler.

A lot of people care about you - just remember that.

-Michelle

Anonymous said...

Hey Tony,

Just wanted to let you know that you and your wife are in my thoughts and prayers. We miss you over at the Crossfire, but we understand. Take any time that you need, man. You're a great man, and I'm sure you'll get through this.

If you need anything, you know where to get me.

-Eric

Anonymous said...

Tony,

We miss you over at PC.com. I am praying for you and yur wife. If you need anything, you know how to contact me!

Love ya!
Christine
(Prae)

KFarmer said...

I am so sorry... prayers to you all.

Stephanie said...

So sorry - you are both in my thoughts. Take care & hugs.

Libby said...

tony..she's beautiful!
Hugs & blessings!
LibbY!

XO said...

=( I'm at a rare loss for words, so...

*hugs*

Jillian said...

Sending Hugs & Prayers out to you and your family!

lecram sinun said...

Hang in there. Prayers and best wishes to all of you.

Julie said...

You both are in my thoughts and prayers and surrounded w/ love and light and healing energy!

Mara said...

Just some prayers coming your way from a stranger...

::smooches::
Mara

BTExpress said...

Thank you all so very much.

•♥•m•♥• said...

sorry....so sorry...'bout it all ......I've been really buried with my comps as of late and just got some time to catch up on blogs this am........as for the crying?? u go for it....its a very cleansing activity. :) as for your wife...Im so sorry ...U mentioned that your friends have stopped coming by....well..those arent real friends then in my book!......consider yourself {{{{hugged}}}} M

Osbasso said...

Just realized I hadn't seen you at all last week, so I thought I'd stop by. Our prayers are with you both. Treasure this time together now.

Hippie girl said...

Hey there, I haven't been blogging much lately but every now and then I check up on all my favorite people that why I'm here now!I know it's a tough time I pray for things to go peacefully for the both of you.
She is so pretty at first glance she looked like she could be a reletive of mine. We have the same look.
Keep your chin (up if nothing else )and know you have friends out here that do care about you. even if we have never met yet!

Blue said...

you know, I think this is the first time we have ever stopped by your blog, but we just want you to know that we'll be keeping you and your beautiful wife in our thoughts

cat & sapphire xx